四个夏天

2019年7月17日。准确来说,是今天之前的三天,我们在家里客厅的照片墙前拍了这张照片,而那之前的几天,我们还在商量是否要去照相馆里拍照留念,最终我们选择在家里用相机拍了这张,为了纪念我们领证一周年的日子。真的非常好,对于我而言,家是比照相馆更能体现我们关系的地方,不管它是温馨的还是有些感伤的。我也提议,以后每年的这个日子,或者重要的时刻,我们都要合影留念,用这样的方式记住生命中重要的刻度。我也好奇,当我们白发苍苍蓦然回首时,这是怎样的回忆。今天是来迪拜出差的第一天,这是为何提前拍照的原因,工作很忙,心里甚至有些烦乱。我想起那一次你去德国出差的日子,你离开的第一天,我就开始忍不住地想你。这一次似乎更加严重,昨晚做了一晚上关于你的梦,醒来的今天全是坐立不安。我不禁想起自己的二十岁,一个人独自去非洲工作那种义无反顾的心情,我再也不想做那样的人。我觉得我已经变成了你的一半,或者,你已经变成了我的一半。

2018年7月17日。正式领证的日子。法律上讲,两个人从此缔结了婚姻的关系。那一天早晨,在去民政局的路上,你问了我一些傻瓜式的小女生的问题。我不确定我的回答是否令你满意。但我想,太多关于婚姻的问题,关于两个人关系的答案,也许注定需要一生的时间去回答和检验。我确定的是,在你问我问题的那一刻,我已经做好了回答的准备,我已经准备好了用一辈子的时间去给你答案,也许这个答案并不是满分,但是我愿意全心全意陪你一起走下去,不管以后的路是泥泞还是美景,是光明还是曲折,我都已经为你储备了足够的信心和勇气。而一年后的今天,我想说,我为我们的决定,不管是我们决定结婚的时候,还是我们决定在一起的时候,我都为此而感到幸福,幸运而且知足。这一年的婚姻生活过得飞快,财米油盐,烟火人间,也偶有分歧的时刻,我仍然坚信,你是上天送给我最珍贵的礼物,是上帝给予我最可爱的天使。我的生活因为你的到来而变得丰富,我的生命因为你的参与而变得完整。

2017年7月17日。在武汉的一家飞机餐厅拍的照片。这条朋友圈也几乎收获了当时最多的点赞和祝福。但是,我深深地觉得,我是一个很笨拙的人,因为什么都瞒不过你,包括在这之前的一周,为了准备这个特别的夜晚,我一个人悄悄地跑去商场里给你买了求婚的钻戒,可是才没过两天,就因为微信里的付款记录被你现场“抓获”。那一天,我看见你眼里的泪珠就像钻石一样闪闪发亮,楚楚动人。求婚安排在了吃饭的时刻,因为我们都是这样的人,并不期待于众人见证这一刻的誓约与祝福。两个人分享同一份幸福如同分食同一份甜美的蛋糕。如果说领证和结婚是官方的关系确认,那么求婚则更像是向着这种确认的过渡。它让我们从恋爱关系向婚姻关系过渡,让我们从喜欢对方向包容对方过渡。它让我慢慢地走向你,也让你渐渐地走向我,两个人开始真正意义上共同面对以后的日子,不管是酸甜苦辣,还是人情冷暖,幸福亦或艰难。而这一天,也恰好是我们确定关系整整五周年的日子。

2016年7月17日。和你在一起后十分难忘的一个夏天。在那篇文章《伴》里,我写道:“仿佛这么多年过去了,流浪的心终于不再无家可归。看着你安静地躺在我身边的样子,心里涌起难言的喜悦与幸福。”那个夏天,我们开始有了属于我们自己的家,很多年前你说我们的爱情像是建在空中的摇摇欲坠的楼阁,这一刻它开始有了某种稳固的地基。而在那之前,我们也曾度过了几个夏天,甜蜜的破碎的分分合合的。这个夏天,显得意外的妥帖和幸福。那天早晨,我从北京飞武汉,坐在公交车上远远地便看见夏天里阳光灿烂的你,我不能抑制内心的激动,想要悄悄地从背后拥抱你。同一天晚上,记得是从电影院出来,我们撑着伞沿街走,我在文章里写道,它几乎使我想起以后所有美好的日子,两个人吃完晚饭拉着手散步,我不能想象比那还要幸福的爱情和生活。在度过了整整四个夏天之后的今天,我想说,亲爱的,谢谢你,谢谢你帮我实现和维持了这样一份平凡而又伟大,看似简单却又来之不易的幸福。

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