这是我们的纪念日

快乐的时光总是稍纵即逝,不知不觉,从北京回武汉已经四个月过去了。

想起那一天中午一个人走在火车站外面明明晃晃的阳光,像是水银一样倾泻下来,再想起几个小时前清冷的北方火车站,又像是真真实实地走进了另一个世界。

从前总说,人在不开心的时候才会想要去写点东西,看来的确是这样子,看一眼凌晨和五点钟上一次更新还在四月,再不更新简直就要长草了。

不过开心的时光,应当比不开心得时光更值得去记录。不开心时写字是情绪发泄,开心时记录却是为了纪念。

从前和你说,我希望以后和你在一起可以一个字不再写,那一定是我最最快乐的时候。

关于写字这件事情,你似乎和我有着不一样的观点。比如你说在长白山的时候,比如你说从前在德国的时候。我想那个时候一定是太过想念,快要溢出来了,所以才需要一种承载的方式。我没有告诉你这些。

在一起的时刻似乎和从前不太一样,像是多了许多柴米油烟人间烟火的气息,是真真实实的生活存在。

也有太多的时刻,会忍不住像三毛笔下的荷西一样看着你的脸,心里默默地问自己,这是真的吗?幸福像美梦一样让人觉得不真实,仿佛时时刻刻都会醒来,所以才要一遍一遍地去确认。

四个月的时间,有太多太多的事情发生,有太多太多的故事可以当做回忆去记录。像你那天说的那样,想去写却有一时半刻根本写不完的感觉。但是心里却又满满的,想要箫歌,想要飞起。

又像是我们最近总听的那首《爱久见人心》的歌词,梁静茹唱:也许我们都意会到这次面对的幸福是真的来临。

于是两个人真的走到了一起。

那个时候,我在朋友圈里写:一屋二人三餐四季。这大抵是两个人在一起的真正意义。两人可以一起上班,一起下班,一起回家,一起吃饭。生命仿佛需要分割到生活的每个刻度上才有了具体而真实的存在感。

当然偶尔也会有小吵小闹,那是平凡生活的调味剂,两个人像是齿轮一样互相嵌入和磨合,这是一段关系的必要组成部分。它时刻提醒着自己今天与快乐来之不易,所以需要去倍加珍惜。

我也曾想起从前那些遥不可及的疑问,谁会等一个多年远行的人,谁又会在多年的远行之后想起当初那个人。

过去向未来遥望,那未来就像你当初的比喻,是没有地基的房子,摇摇欲坠。

而从来之不易的今天回望过去,大概真是冥冥之中早有注定,天涯海角的两个人,却也最终抵住了时间与空间的考验,尽管这其中各自有各自的眼泪或者共同面对的波折,却也最终走到了今天。

心里觉得幸运而又感激,幸运的不仅仅是遇见了你,更是那摇摇欲坠的房子终于有了根基,感激的却是命运的优待,千辛万苦也好,千山万水也好,命运最后并没有让这两个人松开对方的手,而是给予他们一起开始一段新的人生的可能,而且这可能已经成为了现实。

最想感激的还是你,包括爸爸妈妈们,有太多的时候,我会想起这么多年的异地恋,异国恋。这其中又有太多艰难的时刻。

谢谢你没有放弃,陪我一直走到今天。

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